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him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Don't sell yourself short.
I hit up an attractive boy thinking he wouldn't respond back, he did, as attracted to me as i am him. Two comments in he says "btw you're ridiculously attractive" later on msn he's like "i can't get over how attracted i am to you." I doubted he'd be interested but looked what happened.. right now imaginary spooning.

Don't sell yourself short.
Hiro-kun

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
if anyone said to me "I can't get over how attracted i am to you" after the first few messages, I would probably realize that he is either trying to get something out of me, or he is probably an overly clingy person. I don't like people who come on strongly like that
him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
When people talk like that in that amount of time, to me it means their genuine. I like that realness.
freespirit

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
I hate to tell you, but I'm with @Hiro-kun on that one.
themoocher

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
I'm with @Hiro-kun and @freespirit on this one. Attraction can be instant, but if a guy fed me lines like "btw you're ridiculously attractive", then I'd have to question his sanity.
PawClaw

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
I'm with @Hiro-kun, @freespirit and @themoocher on that one, while it may be genuine it does scream either clingy, needy guy who is liable to become a jealousy riddled mindfuck due to thinking ur too amazing OR they playing the flattery game to get a fuck out of you before they sail away to their next conquest.
freespirit

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
Needless to say, but that does of course not at all mean that you, @him, are not attractive. Just try to stay critical when someone acts like that. Sweet starts, bitter endings.
newmy

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
There must be some kind of law against the horizon having intimate relations with humans no?
neonemo

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
Well, maybe he just really liked the sunset on the horizon?

By the way, how on earth can you see someone saying that as genuine? once, maybe. Not more than once. Why do you see that as genuine when it is so soon?

maybe you like them needy.
him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
i'd answer your question but there's nothing i can say to you guys/he's not needy. Also, i'm not new to the dating game or the we're interested in each other game... the game. and you guys would have had to have seen the convo. @freespirit, im not hung up on my attractiveness.
freespirit

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
@him NEVERMIND I WAS ONLY TRYING TO HELP.
him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
also i noticed all you guys agreed only on needy, clingy, and just negative aspects. no one mentioned anything good as a possibility as well, as if there isn't anything good in existence so it's kind of hard for me to have faith in your judgements you've presented in this thread, its a credibility issue. i only say this so you guys can question yourselves and try to expand more. everyone needs expansion.
him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
@freespirit i know. you said this "Needless to say, but that does of course not at all mean that you, @him, are not attractive."

i was just clearing up that i didn't feel some sort of way. so you don't have to yell.
neonemo

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
I don't need to expand. I think it's you, @him, that needs to expand your horizons...


HA
him

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
@neonemo What makes you think that? I'm sorry but why don't you take it down a notch, humble yourself a little please.
freespirit

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
@him I AM BY NO MEANS YELLING, NO, MY CAPS LOCK GOT STUCK.

Ah, that's better.

Keep us posted okay? In case we turn out to be wrong. And no, I'm not teasing you, I genuinely want to know where this is going.
neonemo

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
Said the sea to the tree.
Serge

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
I think this whole thread would have gone done a lot better if it wasn't posted by someone hiding behind a picture of the sea. It just hard to take all this serious...

Keeping my fingers crossed for you tho :)
StripeyZeb

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
Yeah, @serge, if you keep your fingers crossed long enough, maybe they'll eventually be REAL spooning. Imaginary is still good though... right?
nikki1987

Posted: 28 Oct 2011
Re: Don't sell yourself short.
Right, striped one......:)
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